Archive for March, 2009

Mutual of Omaha is running a series of ads about people’s “aha” moments.  This clip is about Bob, a man finally writing his memoirs.

“I always wanted to be sure the truth was told about my life. And I realized, the only one who was going to make that truth was me.”

Watch Bob explain his “aha” moment.

Do you long to tell your story?  Do you have a story that you would like to tell?  Make this moment your ‘aha’ moment.  Write your story, tell your story, leave your story for your family and friends.

I’d never seen a census form until last year. They are a snapshot of a household and they hold a tremendous amount of information about your history. These forms record names and relationships in the household, ages, occupations, education levels and veteran status. There is place of birth for the person recorded as well as the place of birth for that person’s parents. The 1930 census even asks if there is a radio in the home.

Rinne household in 1930

Rinne household in 1930

This is the form from 1930 which records a three-generation household consisting in part of my great-grandfather, my grandmother and grandfather and my mom and 2 aunts. My great-grandfather’s job is listed as ‘poultry man’ and my grandfather is recorded as a manager of a motor car company (a job that would soon end because of the depression).

Start the research on your own personal family history by logging on to Family Search and see what you might learn about your family in 1930.

Calling all Washington State history buffs.  Now available on-line are oral histories of Washington citizens who’ve had an impact on the state.

Sponsored by the Secretary of State’s office, histories included are from Krist Novaselic, the Nirvana bass player and Adele Ferguson, the first female member of the Capital press corps.  But my personal favorite is the personal history of former Justice Charles Z Smith, the first black member of the state Supreme Court. He is one of the trailblazers that has opened doors for so many others. Read about his road to the Supreme Court.

More profiles are being compiled and will be released soon.

After reading several newspaper articles recently on vaccinating children for every disease known to humankind, I found my thoughts wandering to what life was like for us as children in the 1950s, when getting measles, mumps, chickenpox, and flu, were  rites of passage. Not only that, but antibiotics were not available in pill form, and I clearly remember only three medications: Cheracol (for coughs), Paragoric (a narcotic for pain and really bad coughs), and St. Joseph’s aspirin for Children. If you were so sick that the doctor had to come to the house, he often administered penicillin in the only way he could – by injection. How come we’re still alive?

We weren’t allowed to stay home from school for vague discomforts such as “my stomach hurts,” or, “my throat feels funny.” Upon a complaint like that, my mother would check for a fever, using the most reliable instrument she had, her hand. She would place her hand on your forehead, and close her eyes, channeling generations of motherly nursing, and make her decision.

If no fever, she would give your head a slightly dismissive shove and say, “You don’t have a fever. You’ll feel better when you get out in the fresh air.” “The fresh air” meant the mile’s walk to school. If your forehead was so hot that she had to plunge her hand into cold water to ease the burn, she would say something soothing, like “You may have a slight fever. Go on back upstairs to bed.”  I can still feel the relief of hearing those words. Because it was then that the fun began…

I just attended my first Facebook funeral. It lasted about 5 days.

I received the news of Tracy’s death via Facebook. And I sent condolences to his partner via Facebook. I swapped stories and photos on-line and like all good funerals I ran into  people I had not heard from in years.  The swirl of postings containing “do you remember…” and expressions of heartfelt appreciation and sorrow was fundamentally the same ritual my great-grandparents performed as they ‘waked’ a friend several nights in a row.  Granted, without the Irish whiskey.

While, it initially felt strange to use Facebook as a funeral home or the front parlor of a home, it allowed people from all over the continent to grieve as a “family” and acknowledge our connections to each other and to Tracy.  I heard from a friend that her group still leaves messages at a deceased friend’s Facebook page. It serves her far-flung pals as a virtual tombstone.

I’m sure none of this is a surprise to the younger generation or long-time Facebookers.  But being new to FB, I was surprised and pleased at the connectedness I felt sitting at the keyboard.  Though I’m sure Tracy, who hated computers, is not at all amused.